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		<title>Support for Julian Assange of Wikileaks</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Dec 2010 04:12:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Truth will win the war between arrogance and suffering. The time of immense injustice that supports a system that kills, tortures and crushes the weak will end, it has to. This wont be easy and this wont be short, this will ask some more of us to stand up and say the truth. Julian Assange [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=ahmedayub.wordpress.com&amp;blog=1020840&amp;post=11&amp;subd=ahmedayub&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Truth will win the war between arrogance and suffering. The time of immense injustice that supports a system that kills, tortures and crushes the weak will end, it has to. This wont be easy and this wont be short, this will ask some more of us to stand up and say the truth.</p>
<p>Julian Assange in his interview to Time, said: &#8220;&#8221;It&#8217;s very important to remember the law is not what, not simply what, powerful people would want others to believe it is. The law is not what a general says it is. The law is not what Hillary Clinton says it is.&#8221;</p>
<p>You have my full support Julian.</p>
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		<title>Know Thyself</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Jun 2010 08:03:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ahmed Ayub</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It has been a while since I last formally attended college; actually, it is over a decade since I was a registered student in a university. Nevertheless, I can still feel what I felt during my final days before start looking for a job and the questions I had about how good (or bad) I [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=ahmedayub.wordpress.com&amp;blog=1020840&amp;post=10&amp;subd=ahmedayub&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It has been a while since I last formally attended college; actually, it is over a decade since I was a registered student in a university. Nevertheless, I can still feel what I felt during my final days before start looking for a job and the questions I had about how good (or bad) I really was, for the industry back then. Because the only gauge of success or failure before entering professional life, are your grades, your GPA and (at times) your impression on your batch mates.</p>
<p>To give you a slight background, I am a graduate of the golden days of IT industry, when the total number of registered IT firms easily out-numbered the total number of graduates being produced every year.  So the question whether I’d get a job was no criterion on gauging my technical ability or the value I had as a prospective employee for the industry. The employers at that time have lesser choices.</p>
<p>Today, it is different. A lot changed since late 1990s: the industry grew, telecom companies came in, outsourcing to Pakistan increased, more companies registered, call centre we set up, demand for technical resources augmented, more and more universities started CS and telecom programs, more and more new universities were built etc. etc. So, does this mean that today’s head-hunters are able to fulfill their Human Resource needs? The answer-unfortunately- is NO! The core issue for the industry remained the same. For Software and telecom industry, even today, it is as hard to find good graduates as it was a decade back. What is the problem then? Where are we lacking? Is it the curriculum? Or is it the faculty? Or is it the rapid change in industry requirements? Or is it simply a gap that exists between the local IT industry and the technology institutes?</p>
<p>All of the above mentioned factors have a part to play in the situation we are discussing; each has a different set of proposed resolution, however, there is one factor not stated above, which deserves a more serious attention from students is that ‘<em>today’s students really need to raise their bar of excellence</em>.’</p>
<p>We, as a nation, are suffering from an attitude of appreciating mediocrity. We even celebrate being mediocre and promote the idea across. We have started believing that we actually are a great nation with fantastic people who are incredibly gifted and anything and everything that has stopped us from becoming exceptional is either a fault of USA, India, Israel or something done bad by a previous government, wrong political party or a bad faculty member, harsh marking decisions, out of course questions, difficult assignments, industry situation, recession in the US ……. and the list goes on. But the only thing we never admit as individuals and as a nation is that the fault lies within, that we need to raise our productivity, our level of output and reduce our shortcoming today, without blaming it on anyone else but ourselves. This is what can bring in the change.</p>
<p>I’ll quote one of my favorite motivational speakers Ruben Gonzalez here:</p>
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<p style="text-align:left;">“When I was in the third grade, I had a teacher I will never forget. Whenever we started whining about an assignment being too tough, she would always say, &#8220;It builds character.&#8221; Back then, I didn&#8217;t know what character was and if I had to do more homework to get it, I didn&#8217;t want any of it. I didn&#8217;t want life to be challenging. I wanted life to be easy. As I got older, I started to admire people who did challenging things. I wanted to be like them. And today, believe it or not, I actually get bored when life starts getting too easy.”</p>
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<p>Humans, in their nature, try to avoid challenges. Some of them then build this ability to get excited by challenges and an effort to conquer those. From Ruben’s story above, it seems that we have to first build a character to take on tough tasks and stop whining about life being tough. As a student, once you have this ability to positively confront a difficult assignment, a competitive exam or a strict faculty member, you’ll start enjoying the hard work that follows.<br />
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Building a character also means understanding the meaning of ‘no free lunches’. Life does not reward people based on how well they perform a task or a project. Life has a skewed method of rewarding us. Whenever you do something that ‘just meets expectations’, it may not even be recognized. Whenever you do something ‘very well’, life may give you a good reward. But whenever you do something extremely well, life truly opens up for you. Take an example of playing street cricket, you won’t be appreciated much. Even if you are a great tape-ball hitter, you can even be reprimanded by some people. If you play professional cricket for representing your city team, well, may be yes you can skip an internal exam, both your teachers and parents will allow it, no real appreciation there either and the commitment will have to be huge as compared to your street cricket. But if you can become Javed Miandad, who cares whether you have ever been to a school or not, the world is yours. Is this fair? Probably arguable. But the truth is, people don’t want a street cricketer or a Karachi city team opener. People want a committed player like Javed Miandad; a player, who raised the bar for himself and helped his team get some of the most astonishing accomplishments ever.</p>
<p>So, let us zoom-in for a moment and look at what an individual, a student can do to raise one’s own expectations:</p>
<p>While doing any assignment, never submit until it does not pass your own quality criterion and then keep on raising your criteria yourself. Review it again, have it reviewed by a senior, a faculty member, fix and then submit. An interviewer or evaluator needs 5 minutes to figure-out your capability of doing a specific task.</p>
<p>Don’t copy (from a friend or Wikipedia), work things out yourself. Copying is faking yourself to be good, while you in fact, are not. Remember, out of all the students called for interviews in tier one organizations for their grades, 80% are rejected for their actual knowledge.</p>
<p>Be an expert, identify an area of interest and build you expertise around it. 4 years is a long time to be best in a position to be really good at something of your own choice.</p>
<p>Read more, read articles, read business trends, read about technology and be a step ahead of the rumors. Do not follow the myths of recession, myths of IT bubble blasts, myths of telecom industry doomsday, read yourself, contact experts and make sure you know the news not the word of mouth.</p>
<p>The industry is waiting for many or most of you to join in. There is a lot of room, but there is room for the fittest only. Raise your bar, raise your standard and enjoy the rewards.</p>
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		<title>Stay hungry stay &#8230;.. successful??</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 May 2008 12:34:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ahmed Ayub</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Reading the famous speech of Steve Jobs with name &#8220;Stay hungry stay foolish&#8221; again and again. and the gist or the over all message conveyed get clearer and clear, we must &#8220;do what we like doing, or what we do best&#8221;. Recently I have been reading the 7-habit classic from Stephen Covey and then a [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=ahmedayub.wordpress.com&amp;blog=1020840&amp;post=7&amp;subd=ahmedayub&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Reading the famous speech of Steve Jobs with name &#8220;Stay hungry stay foolish&#8221; again and again. and the gist or the over all message conveyed get clearer and clear, we must &#8220;do what we like doing, or what we do best&#8221;.</p>
<p>Recently I have been reading the 7-habit classic from Stephen Covey and then a few articles from Watkins (HBR) and Ruben Gonzalel (www.lugeman.com) and here is what I think success is all about (following is an extract from Ruben&#8217;s article about goal setting, i have just restructured it):</p>
<p>&#8220;There are many facets to success. But you can not let success happen to you, you have to make success happen to you and for that to happen, you have to have a dream, a goal, a passion to achieve something &#8211; something you&#8217;re shooting for. Once your goals is defined, you have to believe in yourself, be sure your can achieve that. You have to take massive action with an attitude that you are willing to do whatever it takes for as long as it takes. Then and only then is success realistic.</p>
<p>More than anything else, your desire will determine if you will make it. How bad do you want it? Is your dream something that you&#8217;d like to do? Is it something that would be nice to do? Or is it something that you are obsessed about?</p>
<p>How badly you want it will determine whether you&#8217;ll realize your dream because how bad you want it determines what will make you quit. Burning desire allows a person with average ability to successfully compete with those who have far more ability. Desire allows you to give it everything you&#8217;ve got. It helps you reach your full potential. Intense desire allows people to win against overwhelming odds.</p>
<p>If your dream is not an obsession, as soon as you come across obstacles, you&#8217;ll quit. As soon as the challenge of reaching your dream becomes<br />
an inconvenience, you&#8217;ll give up.</p>
<p>Success is not convenient. Trust me. In order to succeed you will need to inconvenience yourself in a big way &#8211; for a long time.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s why it&#8217;s so important to be driven, excited, and passionate about your dream. If your &#8220;why?&#8221; is big enough, the &#8220;how&#8221; will take care of itself.&#8221;</p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 13 May 2007 13:34:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[“The positive effect of feedback on performance has become one of the most widely accepted principles in psychology,” write professors Angelo S. DeNisi and Avraham N. Kluger in the February 2000 issue of The Academy of Management Executive. The impact of feedback on performance is nothing novel, new or recent, it is something as old [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=ahmedayub.wordpress.com&amp;blog=1020840&amp;post=4&amp;subd=ahmedayub&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>“The positive effect of feedback on performance has become one of the most widely accepted principles in psychology,” write professors Angelo S. DeNisi and Avraham N. Kluger in the February 2000 issue of The Academy of Management Executive. The impact of feedback on performance is nothing novel, new or recent, it is something as old as human resource management. Conducting feedback is always a positive task, if performed clinically with correct and pragmatic questionnaires that promote realistic reaction, it can bring up a fair bit of improvement in individuals and groups. This does not imply that performing feedback collection intelligently will result in positive feedback, the process may end-up making you feel great about yourself or it can give you a ‘reality check’ you may not be ready for. In either case it must give you a true response of what you are, where you stand on the basis of what and how and who you ask the questions from. Collection feedback or rather looking for personal feedback works just like a weekly project status: you will come across the variance between the planned (your view of your performance) and actual (the feedback) values. Like a project, once the variances are known, only then the tools can be used to get back on track.</p>
<p>Then comes the issues of digesting the response others may have of you, be it your team members, superiors, your wife or kids. Feedback may not always be very sweet or even suger coated, but it must always be taken with a positive mindset, this is the only way to identify where you actually need to improve. One may argue about who is giving the feedback or when the feedback was conducted, was it a bad phase during a project or a tough day at home, what was the team moral at that time, what external factors were involved etc., but within the bounds of one’s own personality, each comment must be evaluated for personal performance gain.</p>
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<p>Ever tried asking your subordinates for a true feedback of your personality, performance and behavior? This is just as difficult doing as intimidating it may sound. Nevertheless, the importance of true feedback out-values the associated risks of conducting and receiving the outcome. Every individual -manager or not- wishes to know what others think about him/her but how many of them personally, and not as an organizational process, do go for it with intentions of gaining true opinions? Opinions, reactions and criticism always exist within a team or organizational structure; knowing them, however, comes with the risk of change of motivation index.</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Apr 2007 11:43:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ahmed Ayub</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Working as Project Manager at a mid-size offshore software facility in Karachi, Pakistan, I believe I had a fair chance to learn a lot about people management; dealing with young professionals and managing the level of expectation they have in a booming local software market. Managing expectations at times can be very challenging in the [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=ahmedayub.wordpress.com&amp;blog=1020840&amp;post=3&amp;subd=ahmedayub&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;">Working as Project Manager at a mid-size offshore software facility in Karachi, Pakistan, I believe I had a fair chance to learn a lot about people management; dealing with young professionals and managing the level of expectation they have in a booming local software market.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;">Managing expectations at times can be very challenging in the above mentioned scenario, where employees will always have options open with other vendors in the local and international market. One of the small tools, however, can be to avoid helping expectations to grow at the first place, yet remain very positive in the way you work your team. You need to figure out, analyze and define the level of appreciation you need to give your team members at every occasion. Being selective does not mean being rude or ignoring small achievements, it, nevertheless, means saving right words and correct expressions for the appropriate occasion. Even saying &#8220;Thank you&#8221; for late sitting can be a fair appreciation (Anne Fisher: senior writer at FORTUNE). Organizations with appreciative environment have better productivity than those without. But this does not imply appreciating late-sittings with emails full of praise for the team; appreciation at every level should still remain an event or occasion that it keeps its value like a favorite perfume. </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;">Also, at times you may want to review your appreciative comments in order to save communicating false impressions of being a start performer to a team member.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;">To be able to effectively manage team expectations, the project manager must start controlling expectations from growing unnaturally.</span></p>
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